விவாகரத்து செய்த முன்னாள் கணவனை மீண்டும் திருமணம் செய்யவேண்டுமென்றால் இன்னொருவரை திருமணம் செய்து அவரோடு ஒருநாள் இருந்துவிட்டு பிறகு அவரை விவாகரத்து செய்துவிட்டு முன்னாள் கணவனை திருமணம் செய்யவேண்டும் என்று இஸ்லாமிய ஷாரியாவாம்.
இவ்வாறு செய்வதற்கு மனம் ஒப்பாத ஒரு இந்தியப்பெண் தற்கொலை செய்துகொண்டார்.
அவருக்கு என் அஞ்சலி.
Re-marriage norm prompts woman suicide
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Malda, July 24: Unable to bear the pressure to re-marry a stranger in order to get back to her former husband, a woman here has committed suicide.
Tarzina Khatun was allegedly told by her family that in order to reunite with Motiur Sheikh, who had given her talaq three months ago, she had no other option but to spend at least one night with somebody else, divorce him and then re-marry. The couple’s families are from two adjoining villages in the Chanchol area of the district, 75km from here, and they felt that they should stick to the shariat norms as explained by the Muslim clerics.
Bablu Sheikh said his sister had married Motiur, a worker in a lathe factory, six years ago.
“At first they were a happy couple but she was under tremendous pressure to bear a child. When she failed, her in-laws chided her and three months ago, her husband gave her talaq,” Bablu said.
Tarzina returned to her parents’ house but after a few days Motiur wanted her back.
“We sat together and decided after conferring with the clerics that Tarzina would have to stay all by herself for three months and then marry a different person and spend at least one night with him. According to the shariat, she could then divorce the new husband and remarry Motiur. But she refused,” Bablu said.
Tarzina had also approached the Chanchol police and in a written complaint said she was not willing to marry anyone else except her former husband.
Police sources said they had gone to the village and sat with the couple’s families, asking them to sort out the matter amicably. Both families then decided that the shariat had to be followed.
“No Muslim can shun the religious law and Tarzina had to abide by it,” said Farizuddin Ahmed, a resident of Imampur.
Bablu said his family had even convinced a youth from the village to marry Tarzina for a day. “All she had to do was spend one night with him and divorce him the next day. But my sister refused to consider the proposal and killed herself,” an inconsolable Bablu said.
This morning Tarzina’s body was found in a room in her parents’ house. She had consumed pesticide meant for eggplants.
Malda police superintendent Dilip Mondol said a case of suicide has been registered.
5 comments:
islam the religion of family values and feminism! If a sunni says 3 times talaq to his wife, he can not have her back unless she marries and has sex with another guy, a "muharem", that is the person that turns haram into halal (sometimes those guys change their mind and don't give the promised divorce, women are commodities, there are tricks to higher a price).
What could be the reason mohamed or one of his followers came up with this law... Is it because when an husband doesn't want his wife, he throws her away with "talak, talak, talak" and as in islam a woman belongs to a male, A) her father or other male relative when she is a virgin or B) an husband when she is no more virgin, he cannot remarry her until she belongs again to a male, i.e. until she married again?
Tarzina had also approached the Chanchol police and in a written complaint said she was not willing to marry anyone else except her former husband.
“No Muslim can shun the religious law and Tarzina had to abide by it,” said Farizuddin Ahmed, a resident of Imampur.
இது தான் அந்த வசனம்: பெண்களுக்கு மதிப்பு மரியாதை அதிகமாக கொடுக்கும், இஸ்லாமின் கட்டளை.
குர்ஆன் 2:230
மீட்ட முடியாதபடி - (அதாவது இரண்டு தடவை தலாக் சொன்ன பின்னர் மூன்றாம்) தலாக் சொல்லிவிட்டால் கணவன் அப்பெண்ணை மறுமணம் செய்து கொள்ள முடியாது. ஆனால் அவள் வேறு ஒருவனை மணந்து - அவனும் அவளை தலாக் சொன்னால் அதன் பின் (முதற்) கணவன் - மனைவி சேர்ந்து வாழ நாடினால் - அதன் மூலம் அல்லாஹ்வுடைய வரம்புகளை நிலைநிறுத்த முடியும் என்று எண்ணினால், அவர்கள் இருவரும் (மறுமணம் செய்து கொண்டு மணவாழ்வில்) மீள்வது குற்றமல்ல. இவை அல்லாஹ்வின் வரையறைகளாகும்; இவற்றை அல்லாஹ் புரிந்து கொள்ளக்கூடிய மக்களுக்குத் தெளிவாக எடுத்துக் காட்டுகிறான்.
English Translations:
002.230
YUSUFALI: So if a husband divorces his wife (irrevocably), He cannot, after that, re-marry her until after she has married another husband and He has divorced her. In that case there is no blame on either of them if they re-unite, provided they feel that they can keep the limits ordained by Allah. Such are the limits ordained by Allah, which He makes plain to those who understand.
PICKTHAL: And if he hath divorced her (the third time), then she is not lawful unto him thereafter until she hath wedded another husband. Then if he (the other husband) divorce her it is no sin for both of them that they come together again if they consider that they are able to observe the limits of Allah. These are the limits of Allah. He manifesteth them for people who have knowledge.
SHAKIR: So if he divorces her she shall not be lawful to him afterwards until she marries another husband; then if he divorces her there is no blame on them both if they return to each other (by marriage), if they think that they can keep within the limits of Allah, and these are the limits of Allah which He makes clear for a people who know.
Source : http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/quran/002.qmt.html
மனம் ஒன்று சேரவில்லை, எனவே விவாகரத்து செய்துக்கொண்டார்கள், சரி, பிறகு ஒன்றாக வாழ நினைத்தார்கள், அப்படி இருக்கும் போது, ஏன் இந்த மூன்றாம் நபர் இடையில் வரவேண்டும்.
பெண்கள் தங்கள் அழகைமறைக்கவேண்டும், மற்றவர்கள் முன்பு சாதாரண உடையுடன் வரக்கூடாது என்று கட்டளையிடும் குர்-ஆன், சம்மந்தமில்லாத ஒருவனை திருமணம் செய்துக்கொண்டால், அவன் அவளின் அழகை பார்க்க மாட்டானா? பிறகு முதல் கணவன் எப்படி அவளை மரியாதையாக நடத்துவான்?
What a foolish religion!?!! How these muslems blindly follow such irrational and blind faith?!?
allaaa.... ivangakitternthu unna kapathanumpa mothalla!
இஸ்லாம் கிறுக்குத்தனமாக இருந்தாலும், இந்திய பண்பு அந்தப்பெண்ணிடம் இருப்பதை பாராட்டியே ஆகவேண்டும்.
அந்த பெண்ணின் இந்திய பண்புக்கு தலைவணங்குகிறேன்
Islam has shocked the world with the its best kept secret, that is, Sharia laws, especially its provision on matters of sex, marriage, gender rights, polygamy…etc. Islamists are dying to enact these barbaric laws wherever they see their potential of success. A few of the once secular countries (such as Iran, Pakistan, Afghanistan, Sudan, and certain parts of Malaysia and Nigeria) have come under these medieval, uncivilized, barbaric rules of Islamic Sharia. Words fail to describe the inhumane, tormenting, and mind boggling cruelty and despicable provisions contained in the Sharia laws. More importantly, this Sharia has totally robbed the Muslim women of whatever little rights they could exercise during the ‘decadent’ secular rules. The worst and the largest victim of Sharia had been the women, unquestionably. Quite often, we find a woman is to be stoned to death for being raped by criminals. A victim is to be executed for the crime committed by the culprits!! This is what is ‘true’ Islamic justice.
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